Valentine's Day

My ideal type does not wait until Valentine's day to tell me how much he loves me. He will not take me out to dinner, by me cards and chocolate just because it is a "holiday". My ideal guy shows me throughout the year and when valentine's day comes around it is just another day. I have been with my ideal guy for the past 8 years and when valentine's day come around sometimes we go out and laugh at the guys scrambling for last minute gifts, other times we will stay in with our kids and have a family night.