Could it possibly be true that certain vibes keep us from talking to certain people? It does for me! It affects me tremendously.It is impressive that when walking into a room filled with with ill humored people, the vibe screams at you - as if telling you to run, and safe yourself.lol... People's vibe and attitude can ruin yours - only if you allow that to happen. My advice, run ! If you are bold enough though , address it. Just a thought.
Can those vibes that lolalaloca speak of be an "assumption"? That’s like judging someone by your first impression or better yet predetermines what a group of people are about, that you know nothing about. I prefer to try and give people the benefit of the doubt not necessarily for them but for me. My world is so much more peaceful if I limit my negative ways of thinking. The beauty to having freedom is that you don't have to stay anywhere that makes you feel uncomfortable.
ReplyDeleteDO NOT LET YOUR BAD VIBES RUN YOUR LIFE! YOU HAVE TO GIVE PEOPLE A CHANCE IN ORDER TO TO MAKE THOSE VIBES A REALITY.
ReplyDeleteyou can't run away every time when things seems or gets rough. i embrace it and learn from it. it gives you a better understanding and awareness of why certain people gives out certain vibes. i try not to judge...
ReplyDeleteI have to agree. I get the same feeling. I know who I will have a good relationship with and who I wouldn't want to be around. Who knows?! I strongly belief that the person gives either a good feeling or a bad feeling.
ReplyDeleteVibes do definitely keep you away from certain people. Not only that, but their vibes may also rub off on you and you may feel the same way. Say that someone is really sad, comes and sits beside you, most likely you will begin to feel sad or negative. The way you feel and the way others make you feel is a very subtle, powerful form of communication, good or bad.
ReplyDeleteWow, I know exactly what you mean by vibes. Vibes is like intuition. Sometimes I just get a feeling in the pit of my stomach that something isn't right, like animal instinct.
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ReplyDeleteHowever, I think it's important to learn how to distingush between vibes and prejudice (pre-judging).
I feel the same way. When I get a bad vibe from someone I walk away from them, and I don't interact with them at all. I've always been that way and I think most people feel that way too. I guess it's just a feeling inside you that tells you not to interact with that person. I actually got that type of vibe from someone today at my job, and I turned to other way to avoid them.
ReplyDeleteI truly don't understand why anyone would care about what kind of vibes certain individuals throw off. I personally go to class to get the job done and get the hell out... Not to make friends or worry about who's throwing off negative or positive vibes.
ReplyDeleteCapricorn , it's not just about school only. It's about the real world. Of course we should not dwell in the vibes but they are contagious.
ReplyDeletevibes create that first impression not only on a person but the surroundings, i always try to go in with an open mind, because i know not all people are easy going, or easy to talk to. you have to give people the benefit of the doubt, if you see they still do not open up, dont take it personal, atleast you tried, and they are the ones missing out on you!
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