Remember compliments you receive, forget the insults. If you succeed in doing this tell me how. Keep your old love letters, throw away your old bank statements. Stretch. Don't feel guilty if you dont know what you want to do with your life, some of the most interesting people i know didnt know at 22 what they wanted to do with their life, some of the most interesting 40 year olds i know still dont get enough calcium, Be kind to your knees, you will miss them when they are gone. Maybe you will marry maybe you wont, maybe you will have children maybe you wont, Maybe you will divorce at 40, maybe you will dance the funky chicken on your anniversary. Whatever you do dont congratulate yourdelf to much or berate yoursself. either your choices are half chance so are everybody elses. enjoy your body. Use it everyway you can. Dont be afraid of it or what other people think of it, it is the greatest instrument you will ever own. Dance even if you have nowhere else to do it but in your own living room. read the directions even if you dont follow them. Do not read beauty magazines they will only make you feel ugly!