Monday, April 11
Trust
How do you start trusting someone? What steps do you take after someone has lost your trust for them to regain your trust? I hate LIES!!! Once someone lies, I lose trust in that person. Can anyone help me on what I can do to start trusting that person when that person is trying very hard to earn my trust??
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Forgive and forget. Move on.
ReplyDeleteYou're the bigger person if you can do that. :-)
One thing I've learned: "Expect the Unexpected."
ReplyDeleteWe can't always assume that things will turn out the way we think they will. When we think we have it all figured out, life (the universe) will surprise us. It's up to us to make something of it whether it be positive or negative. It's your life and it's up to you to decide whether you would like to open yourself up again or live closed off.
I find myself in the same situation.. it really is hard, but the way i see it the world is greater than i am- the lies that i am told really only hurt the other person because they obviously can't live with themselves...i write this after having been lied to for almost a year, so yes it is difficult...i still carry a relationship with this person and i find that communication is the beginning of a new connection
ReplyDeletethanx for ur comments. i guess...bottom line is...i need to get over it if i see the other person trying really hard to earn my trust. one question to all of u guys...how do u handle negative thoughts that just pops up randomly?
ReplyDeleteTo fight negative thoughts simply think about the good times and just do you...do what makes you happy-take time for yourself...you'll find it really centers you :)
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